counting my blessings
Feb 10th, 2008 by woodstone
I’ve been trying to think of a good title for this post, something that kind of sums up the day, but I’m coming up empty. So this will have to do…
We spent another day in the ER today, and I’m counting my blessing this evening that my youngest “chick” is home, safe and sound, and sleeping her own bed.
PLEASE, if your children ride horses, NEVER let them ride without helmets!!! R’s helmet probably saved her life today…
We’d gone to look at a horse we were thinking about getting for R. It’s a horse that’s been used for therapeutic riding for almost a year now at the stable where R and M have ridden off and on for several years. (The same place we got Grant.) We were looking at a 7 yo quarterhorse gelding, a younger and bigger horse than Grant was.
R was taking him for a test ride and doing beautifully… The instructor stayed very close for awhile, but Willy (the horse) was listening to R, following her commands, and R was having a great time. She was relaxed, confident… they were riding in the indoor arena, no ice or snow, no wind or other “spooky” events… everything looked perfect. I had reminded R to put a helmet on almost as an afterthought. Habit more than anything else.
R had been transitioning Willy from a walk to a trot (beautifully I might add) when suddenly, in the middle of a trot, he went down on his front legs, brought his rear up into the air, kicked with his back legs and bucked her off! She came down on the top of her head, then onto her face. I ran to her, and she couldn’t get up… She wasn’t unconscious, but completely dazed… She didn’t know where she was, that she’d been riding, or recognize her riding instructor. Her nose was bleeding, and she had road rash up one side of her face.
She could walk a little (with help) so I quickly loaded her into the car and rushed to the ER. (Yeah, maybe I should have called 911, I don’t know… I wasn’t thinking very clearly myself, and we were WAY out in the country.) It was a horrible drive back to town… R was either crying and confused about what had happened, or dozing off. (Which I knew I couldn’t let her do…) Luckily the roads were clear and I got to the hospital pretty quickly.
They did several CT scans (head, face and neck) and an x-ray (torso) at the hospital and everything checked out ok. It took several hours for her to start thinking clearly though, and her memory of this morning is still very spotty.
They sent her home this afternoon, and although she’s pretty beat-up right now she should heal just fine.
At this point our plans for replacing Grant are on indefinite hold. Even if R were ready to get right back on a horse, I’m not sure I could let her… Maybe later but not right now.
Here’s a picture of my poor beat-up baby…

Please keep her in your prayers, she’s already feeling very sore and it’s only likely to get worse over the next day or so….



Oh no … Thank God her CT scans came out O.K. She’ll be in my thoughts.
That must have been terrifing. I’m so glad shes ok. Give her a big squeeze for me. Shes a tough kid!
Get better fast! The valentines party is 3 days away!
Give her lots of lovin’ to make her better.
Oh My! I’m so glad she’s okay. Perhaps it is a good thing that she doesn’t remember the accident, so that it won’t affect her wanting to ride again.
I know that you’re scared, but you did very well and everyone is okay.
I can’t imagine going through this.
any ideas what made the horse buck? I know that you’re not at all interested in getting him now.
R is a good rider. (((hugs))) and prayers.
Oh, poor baby!!!!
I know it is a bit soon, but I sincerely hope you will reconsider not letting her ride again. Horseback riding is so very beneficial for so many reasons, as I am sure you know. Sure, it has it’s dangers, as any activity does. Even the best riders among us have “bought real estate” (as we like to call it) many times. In fact my instructor used to say you weren’t worth a damn as a rider until you did. But the benefits, especially if she loves it like I did when I was her age, far outweigh the dangers.
And yes, helmets are a MUST. I won’t go into details, but I’ve had them save my skull a number of times. Suffice it to say that once you pull a cracked helmet off your head you will never ride without one again.
what did the instructor have to say?
Oh, i’m so sorry !!! Poor Rhianna. We’ll be praying for a speedy recovery and no lasting emotional scars. Give her a big hug from me.
Oh no! Poor Rhianna, and poor Mom! Thank God she was wearing a helmet. They definitely are a must for many things, including horses. Is she scared to ride again, or not, since she doesn’t remember it? ((((((((((((Maura and Rhianna))))))))))))))
Ouuuuuuuuuuuuuch! I hope that horse knows that bucking R off is not the way to gain a warm and comfy place into the K household! I hope too that R is not too stricken to ever think about riding again…but I agree that some down time might be nice for both of you.
Ouch!! Hope she gets to feeling better soon!